August 29, 2017
When it comes to owning a home, there’s a lot to take into account. This is after you’ve purchased the house and moved in, which is the hard part that we all dread, so consider it a blessing and a curse. The former, because the hard part is over, the latter because there’s still plenty to do. However, it’s all worth it in the end, as I think we can all agree. After all, home is where the heart is, and no one’s heart is really home when we’re paying way too much to live in a lousy apartment, so our own little slice of heaven is exactly that, a sanctuary to call our own that shelters us from the elements and from the rigors and obligations of daily life. Therefore, it’s in your best interest to do what you can to make your house a home. Here are a few things to consider after the dust of moving in finally settles.
First and foremost, keep your house clean. This largely goes without saying, but considering mental illness is on the rise thanks to capitalism, it can be hard for many of us to muster the energy for tasks around are not strictly necessary. However, this is bad for a few reasons, and they’re somewhat obvious. However, they’re important enough to bear repeating. Obviously, a messy home isn’t going to improve your depression. This isn’t news to anyone, but that’s the name of the game when it comes to depression. Depression is like a self fulfilling prophecy, because the illness often leads you to forego certain productive tasks that would improve your mental state, or at least preserve it. Instead, your mental illness sort of makes you activate your own triggers through negligence. So, if you’re ever going to feel at home in your home, keep it tidy as often as possible. Another thing to consider about cleaning your home is company. We’re not all social butterflies. Especially now, with depression, of course, and social anxiety on the rise. However, we all have company some time, and when we do, we want them to feel at home. But, how can they when we don’t because of the mess? Therefore, before you bring your eHarmony date home for dinner, make sure your home is neat and tidy. By the way, this merely means clear of garbage, dirt, and the like. Clutter is fine and, in fact, a sign of intelligence, allegedly. If nothing else, some of us are simply more organized when we don’t organize our surrounds, so to each his own there.